It's not that difficult to Love

Love isn’t as complicated as we make it out to be. It’s the most simple, most elemental, most pure, most beautiful feeling, emotion, whatever you want to call it that beats in our hearts. Unfortunately, it’s also the most intangible sentiment. We can’t quantify it.

Your ‘I love you so much’ could be so much less than my ‘I love you so much’ & there’s no way to prove who loves who more & therein lies the whole fucking problem. We’re never happy with how we’re loved. We complicate things. We make things difficult. We expect too much. We receive too little. We can’t accept that so we prod & push and ask for more & when we don’t get what we want, we question their love & affection because they don’t love us the way we love them.

They don’t love us the way we were told they should. They don’t love us the way we want to be loved & we don’t believe anymore. We lose faith. We allow ourselves to be consumed by hatred, by anger, by desire, by greed, by anxiety, by insecurity & we give up even before we try. It really isn’t all that difficult to love. We just have to love unconditionally, love selflessly, love altruistically, love acceptingly. We just have to love them the way we can, the way we know how & allow them to love us the way they can, the way they know how.

We just have to love loving them and love them loving us.